Lost in Translation: Culture Edition

 May 18, 2023

    Standing outside of the resident building, I smiled at a young man walking by. This is something I did not think much of because in the United States this is considered normal. In Spain, that is not the case. If you smile at someone in Spain, it means you are interested in them. Basically, I just looked dumb. I was lost in translation culturally, and at the time, I had no idea!
    Yesterday at the Market filled with foods and drinks, I saw a couple excessively displaying PDA. In my mind, I felt uncomfortable, and looked away; what I didn't know is these acts are considered normal. Today at orientation, James explained to us the main two reasons public display of affection are so accepted: past history and socioeconomic status. In the earlier days of Spain's history, their ruler would not let any couples show affection. Even married couples could not hold hands. This all changed when he was no longer in power leading to the Spanish people overly expressing their love for each other. They had been restricted from their choices for so long, and once the residents had the freedom, they took full advantage of it in celebration. The second reason has to do with socioeconomic status; in Spain, it is normal for 30-40 year olds to live with their parents. Because these acts of affection are weird to do in front of parents, the couples display their affection out of the house. I found this very odd because in the United States individuals usually move out in their 20s. Today was filled with moments of culture shock, but I am slowly learning to accept these unique ways to communicate.

This is an example of the PDA present everywhere!

Maddie and I at the rooftop terreza that James
took us to. We got to see the whole beautiful city
of Madrid. I made sure not to smile too long
at anyone!